The politics of “I love you.” • Supervisors love a worker who overextends. The moment that worker protests and insists on equity, the worker may be accused of insubordination, and the once model worker becomes a problem that needs to be eliminated. • Constituents love politicians who provide handouts during election season and hate thoseContinue reading “The Politics of “I love you””
Author Archives: Stacey The Editor™
Stacey holds a Master of Science Degree in Gender and Development Studies, a Master of Arts Degree in Communication Studies, and a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Literatures in English. Based on her philosophy of gender equity and gender-sensitive development, she operates with the understanding that no single approach is right for any one group/person. Stacey, who is also an author, is a honest Vocal Introvert™ and empath, advocates for the unmet needs of women and girls, as well as any other marginalized group, through her writing, which include but is not limited to poetry, story writing and thought pieces. She is also a content and copy editor, proofreader and writer who enjoys open and raw conversations and uncomfortable truths about life, but more specific, parenting (the good and not so good), misogyny, gender-based violence, narcissistic abuse, feminism, friendship, and sex. She believes in thoughtfulness and love and will choose kindness over being nice any day. Check out her books at her author page at https://www.amazon.com/stores/Stacey-A-Palmer/author/B08ZSPMZ8T?ref=ap_rdr&store_ref=ap_rdr&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true#formatSelectorHeader
THE POWERFUL PROMISE
Each time I visit this place to conduct business, we enjoy a friendly exchange. Within this context, I would say we have a good relationship. His greetings are kind, and our banter is always respectful. Today, I was simply passing by, so we greeted each other in the same manner we would if I wereContinue reading “THE POWERFUL PROMISE”
FIX YOUR POSTURE.
We all have scriptures that we rely on to take us through each day. For me, there are several, but the two that remain constant utterances are: Psalm 139:23-24 23 Search me, O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts: 24 And see if there be any wicked way in me and leadContinue reading “FIX YOUR POSTURE.”
JUST BE A BLESSING….
The scratch on the black BMW was evident, but so too was the look of despair on the face of the man in the blue Honda Fit who caused it. “I don’t know what happened. I just didn’t see you. Sorry!” He lamented as he sat in his vehicle looking up at the owner ofContinue reading “JUST BE A BLESSING….”
MAYBE IT’S ME!
“The Chronicles of a Woman: The Truth-Teller” explores self-reflection through seven poems, prompting readers to consider their role in relationships, accountability, and the discomfort of examining one’s faults.
And 2024 was a success… not BUT!
Many of us started 2024 with a list of things we hoped to achieve. For many, the desires of our heart were attached to the house, the car, the job, the improved relationship with loved ones, or a new romantic relationship. Despite the efforts of many, it seemed that none of those things would comeContinue reading “And 2024 was a success… not BUT!”
WORRY LOVE
It had only been a week since the passing of a colleague’s parent, and when asked how he was doing he said he was doing fine. “I am calm, so maybe it has not hit me yet,” he said. “Soon, it will. I am sure,” he continued. “Maybe, this is the peace beyond understanding thatContinue reading “WORRY LOVE”
Disobedient adults
As I took the sharp corner to make my way through the hills and valleys (literally), I burst out laughing. It occurred to me that if I, as an adult, have such a challenge with obedience, what say my daughter.
DisappointHIM
The post explores the concept of disappointment in oneself and from others, emphasizing that such feelings often stem from personal value systems, particularly a faith-based one. It highlights the importance of examining expectations, recognizing when they conflict with one’s values, and understanding the role of humility in addressing disappointments related to one’s relationship with God.
Beautified Abuse
Good for you if you have never offended anyone or if anyone has never offended you. Clearly, you are living under a rock. Obviously, we are all going to offend/hurt each other (in great or small ways) at some point in our interactions with each other – friends, family, coworkers, strangers-in-passing, etc. Once we coexistContinue reading “Beautified Abuse”
PARENTING, ADVOCACY AND EVERYTHING IN BETWEEN 