My daughter – MY (inadvertent) teacher!

The thing about parenting is that it has very little to no bearing on what’s going on with the parent – parenting is a process that continues, no matter what.  It doesn’t wait around – at least not longer than what it requires for you to have your “cookie and milk” moment.  How you chooseContinue reading “My daughter – MY (inadvertent) teacher!”

How can I blame the TV when I control the remote?

It is so interesting that we have gotten to a place, as parents, where we can say with a straight face “I blame the TV…” The audacity of us to even utter those words… it is almost hilarious – no, not ALMOST, it IS hilarious and a tad embarrassing.  It would be a complete andContinue reading “How can I blame the TV when I control the remote?”

Are bullies born or created?

My daughter has been going through a lot of changes lately; changes which affect her in many different ways – emotionally and physically – growing pains and then some. Added to that, there is the pressure of being in a class with very unkind 8 year olds, who at such early ages/stages, have mastered the artContinue reading “Are bullies born or created?”

Romancing the “Single” mom!

So the big Day was just here – the day when all the “loved” ones received expressions of love in many forms from their significant others.  It was also the day when loneliness, for many, was more pronounced than it ever was. A very close friend of mine shared an experience she had while waitingContinue reading “Romancing the “Single” mom!”

Worry, Pray AND Affirm!

I have never met a mother who has not worried about her child (at some point or another) – NEVER.  In fact, the worry, based on my observation, intensifies the older the child gets. Mothers spend so much time on their knees praying/worrying about their children’s overall well-being: Will she/he do well in school? WillContinue reading “Worry, Pray AND Affirm!”

It Takes A Village To Raise A Child; BUT….!

After reading a news item about a mother who was denied bail for throwing hot water on her 12 year old son, because he came home in soiled school clothes, I was flabbergasted, to say the least. What could cause a mother to do this to her own child?  Although this is something inconceivable, toContinue reading “It Takes A Village To Raise A Child; BUT….!”

What Does It Profit a Man…?

In the middle of a group discussion some time ago, a gentleman whom I had known for a while happily announced that he was expecting a second child by another woman other than the mother of his first child.  He went on to proudly declare that he just could not deal with the first woman,Continue reading “What Does It Profit a Man…?”